Family & Carer Stress

Becoming responsible for our ageing parents and taking care of them is emotionally difficult. As our parent starts to lose their independence and decisions need to be made, it can be incredibly worrying and stressful, placing strain on our relationships and wellbeing - particularly if we are unprepared or lack resources and support. Here we share tips and guidance on how you can better manage the psychological and emotional aspects of your parents ageing and protect your own wellbeing.

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Protecting finances after a dementia diagnosis

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Six recommended eldering reads

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Tips for supporting emotionally difficult ageing p...

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5 tips to help your parent accept a carer

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Helping your parent settle into a care home

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Helping your parent declutter their home

Reviewed by Siân Pelleschi Helping your parent or elder relative declutter their home ...

8 tips for avoiding carer burnout

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Spotting the warning signs of carer burnout

Reviewed by Dr Sarah Gunn If you or a family member are the primary person supporting ...

How to talk to your parents about later life plann...

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Tips for choosing a carer for your parent or elder...

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Managing medications for ageing parents

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Top tips for travelling with older people

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7 ways to support a sibling caring for an ageing p...

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How to coordinate a house clearance

Reviewed by Siân Pelleschi Coordinating the house clearance of your parent or elder re...

Best UK introductory live-in care agencies

Making the decision to get live-in support for an elder parent or relative is never strai...

Avoiding carer burnout: tips on building your supp...

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Respite care: What is it and how do you organise i...

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Empowering TED Talks to help you prepare and care ...

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Healthy boundaries, happy relationships: How to se...

Reviewed by Dr Sarah Gunn As your parents age and their care needs start to increase, ...